I was very timid when I was in my 20s. I didn’t make a peep during sex, and I didn’t enjoy it much. Yet I continued to have sex hoping something would change, that maybe with time or another partner, the magic switch would flip and I would suddenly get to have what they...
Taoist and Tantric sexual teachings have swirled in and out my life for years, brought by various lovers, books, and teachers. I have embraced some of the beliefs and discarded others. I was not impressed by the lover who, after reading Mantak Chia, suggested I swallow because of semen’s supposed nutritional value. I think...
I’m all for technology that en-hances my life, but I’m not an early adopter. My boyfriend, however, loves the newest tech things. So when the new iPhone was coming out, he oohed and ahhed long enough that I was finally seduced and we both pre-ordered. It is pretty nice, but I’m most excited about...