Although most of your American holidays are strange and alien to me (because I am a Brit) the one I do enjoy is Thanksgiving. Not because of any bogus historical reference, but just because it’s nice to be reminded to give thanks. With that in mind I want to give a shout out to...
Fresh off the press.... Issue #3!
In this Issue:
Dr. Melanie Rose - Shame is Lame, Part Two!
Grim Rita - Dear Rita
Barron Scott Levkoff - Professor Dandy's Cheat Sheet for Navigating Sexy Parties
Dixie De La Tour - Bawdy Stories
Dr. Charlie...
San Francisco has long been home to many outposts of sexual adventure. At the Center for Sex & Culture we keep an archive that gives us a peek into some of them, and the LGBT Historical Society of Northern California has lots of information too. We know that our little City by the Bay...
Lots of people enjoy exploring the Hershey Highway*. Your winker* is full of incredibly sensitive nerve endings which can bring amazing pleasure. It can tap into the sense being naughty and playing with taboos. Since the chocolate starfish* contracts along with the rest of the pelvic floor during orgasm, it can add to the...
Last issue, I introduced the idea of sexual shame and how it can rear its ugly head within you. But sexual shame is not only something we feel, it’s also something we enforce. You may not even realize the subtle statements you make about another’s sexuality are shaming. These statements often carry not only...
Greetings and Salutations! I do hope you’ll enjoy this small quiz and find that it helps you to better embody your ‘Gentleman Pervert’. It may please you to know that each of the scenarios presented in these multiple choice questions are modeled on ACTUAL situations I, Professor Dandy, have encountered on my sojourns into...
“Hanging out” is what you do when you want to keep all options open, including friendship, romance, intimacy, late-night bootie calls, and the possibility of hooking up with his/her housemate, without ever having to meet anybody’s parents. “Dating”, on the other hand, is getting to know someone, usually with romance as the implication, and...
The people of San Francisco are so preoccupied with removing the Playa dust from their cracks and crevices, most haven’t even noticed that the holiday season is creeping up on us fast! Halloween is officially San Francisco’s favorite party, and although our beloved but blighted lowest-common-denominator-drunkenfest street party in the Castro has gone forever,...
Fresh off the press.... Issue #2!
In this Issue:
Dr. Melanie Rose - Shame is Lame
Marcia Baczynski vs. Grim Rita - "Dating" Versus "Hanging Out"
Barron Scott Levkoff - Professor Dandy's Man Chat
Carol Queen - Frisky History
Dr. Charlie Glickman - Back Door Conquistador
Plus...
Shame about sex is what keeps sexy people hidden. When we reveal our distinctively sexy selves, and outrageously flaunt our sexuality, we are rebelling against shame. Rebellion is an integral step on the road to freedom but it doesn’t exorcize all the ghosts. We must also understand how shame works and how to unravel...
San Francisco has long been home to many outposts of sexual adventure. At the Center for Sex & Culture we keep an archive that gives us a peek into some of them, and the LGBT Historical Society of Northern California has lots of information too. We know that our little City by the Bay...