Greetings fellow Menfolk-adventurers, sexplorers, and sex-positive pioneers! I’ve just been granted a sneak peek at Dr. Melanie Rose’s article, “No Expectations”, which you will see in this very issue. I have to say, it’s inspired me to address the issue from the male perspective. As I mentioned in my “Tips for Navigating Sexy Parties”...
Sexual fantasies are a great way to discover new desires, try on parts of our psyches we might not want the world to see, and add a little zing to sex. There are lots of ways to play with fantasies, so you have a lot of options. One great way to enjoy a fantasy...
Strive to be Socially Excellent Your persona and personal presentation; embrace them as you would any creative act Personal accessories are a wonderful embellishment to any outfit, as they pique interest and invoke conversation When dressing to go out, ask yourself: Is my outfit an INVITATION or ARMOR? Don’t be afraid of neckwear, hats,...
We run in the same social circles and I really don’t want to see her at an event or a party. I also don’t want to lose my friends to her or make them our referee. What do I do? You don’t say whether the end of your relationship was due to a...
As 2010 draws to a close we have lots to celebrate — on December 31st, 2010 it will be the 10 year anniversary of Mission Control! For those of you who don’t know, Mission Control is our community clubhouse where we host most of our events. It’s the birthplace of Kinky Salon, SanFranSexy and...
Fresh off the press.... Issue #4!
In this Issue:
Dr. Carol Queen - Tis The Season to Give SEX TOYS
Dr. Melanie Rose - No Expectations
Marcia vs. Grim Rita - “I’ve never been to a sex party before. What should I expect?”
Barron...
Although San Francisco has always been a hub for liberal sexuality, in the 1970s things really started to take off for bisexuals. The Sutro was a bathhouse that admitted women as well as men; across the Bay, Barry and Shell’s swing house was wildly popular. The National Sex Forum, part of the Institute for...
There are lots of reasons why people like group sex. It can be fun to feel lots of people at the same time. It can be hot to watch or be watched, even if you don’t want to have sex with anyone other than your date. It can be a great way to play...
Dear Rita Is it OK for a woman to be addicted to sex? If a male Galapagos tortoise, who fucks once a year, had a relationship with a female Bonobo chimp, who fucks once a minute, he’d make her feel like a sex crazed nut. It’s all relative. Get yourself another Bonobo. Dear Rita...
Although particulars vary by event, in general there are a few things you should expect. First: There will be people there in various states of undress, perhaps having sex, maybe making out, or dancing. It is, after all, a sex party. Second: There is usually a social area separate from the “play” area, where...