Holding Space for the Feminine

January 3, 2011
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Greetings fellow Menfolk-adventurers, sexplorers, and sex-positive pioneers! I’ve just been granted a sneak peek at Dr. Melanie Rose’s article, “No Expectations”, which you will see in this very issue. I have to say, it’s inspired me to address the issue from the male perspective. As I mentioned in my “Tips for Navigating Sexy Parties”...

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Playing with Fantasies

December 3, 2010
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Sexual fantasies are a great way to discover new desires, try on parts of our psyches we might not want the world to see, and add a little zing to sex. There are lots of ways to play with fantasies, so you have a lot of options. One great way to enjoy a fantasy...

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Professor Dandy’s Cheat Sheet for Navigating Sexy Parties

December 3, 2010
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Strive to be Socially Excellent Your persona and personal presentation; embrace them as you would any creative act Personal accessories are a wonderful embellishment to any outfit, as they pique interest and invoke conversation When dressing to go out, ask yourself: Is my outfit an INVITATION or ARMOR? Don’t be afraid of neckwear, hats,...

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My girlfriend and I just broke up.

December 3, 2010
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We run in the same social circles and I really don’t want to see her at an event or a party. I also don’t want to lose my friends to her or make them our referee. What do I do?   You don’t say whether the end of your relationship was due to a...

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Unemployed hottie seeks career change: Gigolo!

December 3, 2010
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His ad said “Unemployed hottie seeks career change: Gigolo!” so I absolutely HAD to answer it. I emailed him about his experience and his rates, to which he replied, “Hey, it was a joke. I have a lot of time on my hands and wanted to meet women.” I wrote back, “Oh sure, I...

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Pop my cork!

December 3, 2010
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As 2010 draws to a close we have lots to celebrate — on December 31st, 2010 it will be the 10 year anniversary of Mission Control! For those of you who don’t know, Mission Control is our community clubhouse where we host most of our events. It’s the birthplace of Kinky Salon, SanFranSexy and...

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SanFranSexy Issue #4 – December 2010

November 24, 2010
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SanFranSexy Issue #4 - December 2010Fresh off the press.... Issue #4! In this Issue: Dr. Carol Queen - Tis The Season to Give SEX TOYS Dr. Melanie Rose - No Expectations Marcia vs. Grim Rita - “I’ve never been to a sex party before. What should I expect?” Barron...

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More Frisky History!

November 3, 2010
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Although San Francisco has always been a hub for liberal sexuality, in the 1970s things really started to take off for bisexuals. The Sutro was a bathhouse that admitted women as well as men; across the Bay, Barry and Shell’s swing house was wildly popular. The National Sex Forum, part of the Institute for...

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No Glove to Love

November 3, 2010
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No Glove to Love

There are lots of reasons why people like group sex. It can be fun to feel lots of people at the same time. It can be hot to watch or be watched, even if you don’t want to have sex with anyone other than your date. It can be a great way to play...

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No Expectations

November 3, 2010
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I love interacting with sex-positive people. I can be as flirtatious as I want and it’s understood that, despite that, I may not want to have intercourse with you. I may just want to kiss you deeply for an hour or have a little frottage session (dry humping with our clothes on). Or I...

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Dear Grim Rita

November 3, 2010
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Dear Rita Is it OK for a woman to be addicted to sex? If a male Galapagos tortoise, who fucks once a year, had a relationship with a female Bonobo chimp, who fucks once a minute, he’d make her feel like a sex crazed nut. It’s all relative. Get yourself another Bonobo. Dear Rita...

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“I’ve never been to a sex party before. What should my partner and I expect?”

November 3, 2010
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Although particulars vary by event, in general there are a few things you should expect. First: There will be people there in various states of undress, perhaps having sex, maybe making out, or dancing. It is, after all, a sex party. Second: There is usually a social area separate from the “play” area, where...

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SanFranSexy is a bi-monthly zine bringing a bulging package of Sex-Positive Culture to your doorstep. Every month we bring you juicy bits of news, events, resources, and advice keeping you in the know about what’s worth knowing in our sassy little town.

SanFranSexy focuses on Sex-Positive lifestyle, with articles like safe sex tips for threesomes, relationship advice for sluts, how to be a gentleman at a sex club, and the importance of eye contact during aural sex. And that’s just for starters.

Brought to you by Polly Superstar, SanFranSexy has a glorious roster of local experts and luminaries contributing their awesomeness to this orgy of good times. Round it all out with a calendar of upcoming events and you’ll be so satisfied you’ll be reaching for a cigarette when you’re done.

Call us old-fashioned, but as well as being available online, this zine is actually printed on paper, and distributed around town to select retail outlets, nightclubs and sexy hot-spots!