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Dear Marcia

July 22, 2011
By Marcia Baczynski

I’m going to Burning Man for the first time this year with my partner and I want to make sure our relationship doesn’t implode. What are some things we should watch out for? Burning Man is a weird and wonderful place where all sorts of mind-blowing stuff can happen. Some things are predictable, however....

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My girlfriend and I just broke up.

December 3, 2010
By Marcia Baczynski

We run in the same social circles and I really don’t want to see her at an event or a party. I also don’t want to lose my friends to her or make them our referee. What do I do?   You don’t say whether the end of your relationship was due to a...

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“I’ve never been to a sex party before. What should my partner and I expect?”

November 3, 2010
By Marcia Baczynski

Although particulars vary by event, in general there are a few things you should expect. First: There will be people there in various states of undress, perhaps having sex, maybe making out, or dancing. It is, after all, a sex party. Second: There is usually a social area separate from the “play” area, where...

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What’s the difference between “dating” versus just “hanging out”?

October 3, 2010
By Marcia Baczynski

“Hanging out” is what you do when you want to keep all options open, including friendship, romance, intimacy, late-night bootie calls, and the possibility of hooking up with his/her housemate, without ever having to meet anybody’s parents. “Dating”, on the other hand, is getting to know someone, usually with romance as the implication, and...

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What do you do when two partners can’t agree on the nature and type of open relationships?

August 3, 2010
By Marcia Baczynski

Often when both people in a couple want to open up a relationship, but friction develops, it’s because one or both parties is afraid of not getting basic needs met. Take some time to talk about your fears… and more importantly, listen to your partner’s fears. They may not be rational, or even about your...

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