Advice

Holding Space for the Feminine

January 3, 2011
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Greetings fellow Menfolk-adventurers, sexplorers, and sex-positive pioneers! I’ve just been granted a sneak peek at Dr. Melanie Rose’s article, “No Expectations”, which you will see in this very issue. I have to say, it’s inspired me to address the issue from the male perspective. As I mentioned in my “Tips for Navigating Sexy Parties”...

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Playing with Fantasies

December 3, 2010
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Sexual fantasies are a great way to discover new desires, try on parts of our psyches we might not want the world to see, and add a little zing to sex. There are lots of ways to play with fantasies, so you have a lot of options. One great way to enjoy a fantasy...

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Professor Dandy’s Cheat Sheet for Navigating Sexy Parties

December 3, 2010
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Strive to be Socially Excellent Your persona and personal presentation; embrace them as you would any creative act Personal accessories are a wonderful embellishment to any outfit, as they pique interest and invoke conversation When dressing to go out, ask yourself: Is my outfit an INVITATION or ARMOR? Don’t be afraid of neckwear, hats,...

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My girlfriend and I just broke up.

December 3, 2010
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We run in the same social circles and I really don’t want to see her at an event or a party. I also don’t want to lose my friends to her or make them our referee. What do I do?   You don’t say whether the end of your relationship was due to a...

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No Glove to Love

November 3, 2010
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No Glove to Love

There are lots of reasons why people like group sex. It can be fun to feel lots of people at the same time. It can be hot to watch or be watched, even if you don’t want to have sex with anyone other than your date. It can be a great way to play...

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No Expectations

November 3, 2010
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I love interacting with sex-positive people. I can be as flirtatious as I want and it’s understood that, despite that, I may not want to have intercourse with you. I may just want to kiss you deeply for an hour or have a little frottage session (dry humping with our clothes on). Or I...

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Dear Grim Rita

November 3, 2010
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Dear Rita Is it OK for a woman to be addicted to sex? If a male Galapagos tortoise, who fucks once a year, had a relationship with a female Bonobo chimp, who fucks once a minute, he’d make her feel like a sex crazed nut. It’s all relative. Get yourself another Bonobo. Dear Rita...

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“I’ve never been to a sex party before. What should my partner and I expect?”

November 3, 2010
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Although particulars vary by event, in general there are a few things you should expect. First: There will be people there in various states of undress, perhaps having sex, maybe making out, or dancing. It is, after all, a sex party. Second: There is usually a social area separate from the “play” area, where...

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Back Door Conquistador

October 3, 2010
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Lots of people enjoy exploring the Hershey Highway*. Your winker* is full of incredibly sensitive nerve endings which can bring amazing pleasure. It can tap into the sense being naughty and playing with taboos. Since the chocolate starfish* contracts along with the rest of the pelvic floor during orgasm, it can add to the...

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Shame is Lame Part 2

October 3, 2010
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Last issue, I introduced the idea of sexual shame and how it can rear its ugly head within you. But sexual shame is not only something we feel, it’s also something we enforce. You may not even realize the subtle statements you make about another’s sexuality are shaming. These statements often carry not only...

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