San Francisco has long been home to many outposts of sexual adventure. At the Center for Sex & Culture we keep an archive that gives us a peek into some of them, and the LGBT Historical Society of Northern California has lots of information too. We know that our little City by the Bay...
Lube is, simply, one of the easiest and most cost-effective ways to improve your sex life. I’m always amazed when people resist buying a $15 or $20 bottle, especially after they’ve spent a lot more on dinner, drinks, movie tickets, babysitters, makeup, clothes, or any of the other things we buy in order to...
I’m all for technology that en-hances my life, but I’m not an early adopter. My boyfriend, however, loves the newest tech things. So when the new iPhone was coming out, he oohed and ahhed long enough that I was finally seduced and we both pre-ordered. It is pretty nice, but I’m most excited about...
Gentlemen, Dandyfolk, Bohemians and those of a gentlemasculine persuasion, Greetings and Welcome to Professor Dandy’sManChat. I shall attempt, over themonths and issues to come, here on this small parcel of typeprint-turfto which I have been afforded, toshare with you my rambling thoughts and reflections addressing. Manhood and its relationshipto sex-positivity and our belovedcommunities. Oh,...
Often when both people in a couple want to open up a relationship, but friction develops, it’s because one or both parties is afraid of not getting basic needs met. Take some time to talk about your fears… and more importantly, listen to your partner’s fears. They may not be rational, or even about your...
San Francisco is a sexy town. It flirts with me. Sometimes I find myself idly twirling my hair between my fingers, eyes cast downwards, a little gasp under my breath as it propositions me. It makes me giggle it’s so naughty. I am pretty confident that I could not live my life as openly...